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I am only one woman...

(unknown) from imc global | 28.09.2001 11:27

"I have been especially saddened that Muslim women in my neighborhood, who have their heads covered, are sometimes too frightened to leave their homes.
I think together we can do something."

I have been disturbed, as I am sure many of you have been, about the treatment of Muslims in America these past two weeks. I have been especially saddened that Muslim women in my neighborhood, who have their heads covered, are sometimes too frightened to leave their homes.
I think together we can do something.

If this were discrimination against Jewish men in America, I would hope that Americans would stand behind them, and one way of doing so would be that all men, of any faith or no faith at all, could cover their heads, with a kippah or any head covering. If my memory is correct, this is something similar to the actions of the people of Denmark to save Jews during the holocaust. Each said, "I am a Jew." The Jews were protected by the many. If my recollection of this event is not correct, I would like to think it was true.

So, using this as a model, I thought what if American women - - Jewish, Christian, Buddhist, Friends, Hindus, atheists, agnostics - - were to wear head coverings similar to Muslim women? Could we stand together with and protect Muslim women in America by doing this?

I spoke to someone at a local California mosque. I described my idea, and said I was calling as I wanted to be sure that doing such a thing would not be offensive in any way to Muslim women or to Muslim people. He was at first puzzled by what I was proposing. When he realized what I was saying, he said it would not be offensive at all, and then began to say thank you over and over. He questioned what good would this do if I were the only woman covering my head. I said I think I could get other women to do it also.

It touched me deeply when he said he couldn't tell me to do this. I first thought he meant that there may be some Muslim reason that a higher authority is needed to say this would be O.K. Instead, he said he could not tell me to do this as then I would be in danger, and he didn't want me to be in danger. He started thanking me again. I said he shouldn't thank me. This should not be happening.

I'll start tomorrow - - as scared, embarrassed, and ill at ease I am doing this. I don't even know how to wear the scarf, or what color it needs to be, or how to tie it on my head. If I can, I'll see if the Palo Alto Daily would make this a story as then there would be more women doing the same. I will think of the Egyptian Muslim woman I met last week, worried about leaving her house or sending her son to public school, and maybe this will give me strength to take others thinking I look foolish.

I hope this will be only for a very short time. I'll try to keep in touch with Muslim women in this area. When they tell me they are no longer afraid to go out, then this will no longer be necessary.

Please pass the word. I am only one woman.

Originally posted on the MichaelMoore.com message board by "Genepool".

(unknown) from imc global

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28.09.2001 12:32

Although I think that in many ways this would be a really powerful show of unity I question the validity of taking on what is surely a sign of female oppression (in my opinion) as a sign of solidarity?

Is there not some other, maybe non-gender specific symbol that can be used?

Also, I think we need to find ways of expressing the notion that our diversity is our strength!

Mr Me
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respect to the sistas

28.09.2001 21:53

i for one wont be doning a scarf and simperin about the place, i dont see muslim men havin to cover up, why shud any wimin hav to, no man tells me wat to do, i wud beat the fuk out of them, rather than bow down in servitude to any man, i hav no gripe wif muslim wimin, obviously they are intimidated by their menfolk and their oppresive family circles into covering up and therefore they deserve our sympathy not our derision. im sure many muslim wimin face derision outside their own community for wearin hijab, but unfortunately we live in a violent society, muslim wimin must learn to stick up for themselves, and fight back, against their oppresive menfolk and also public ignorance. i feel once wimin can beat their menfolk into place by watever means necessary, whether this involves takin a hammer or a bottle to the back of yur husband's head, then so be it, this is a lesson that any man will learn , that they must behave themselfs, respect any wimin no matter wat their social status in life, whether i be a cleaner or a doctor, or face the consequences of yur oppression of the fairer sex.

ona deathlist


i agree up to a point

30.09.2001 13:13

most of what you say is true 'ona deathlist' about respect and not conforming to others but for alot of muslim women (i have heard from muslim women) wear the headscarves out of tradition and a way of life and wont feel comfortable not wearing them like the uniform you wear (hey we all wear a uniform of some sort) when they are out and mixing whith people of other backgrounds so hey lighten up violence begats violence only information changes attitudes

aAa


one woman

01.10.2001 12:41

I think it would be a great sign of unity to support the muslim women. The West is so hung up on signs of oppression within Islam....i am a muslim woman, I have never felt oppressed by my religion, Islam was thew firt religion to give women the right to inherit property, the right for equal education, the right to travel...lets look at it how it is..not how it appears. Of course within Islam there are men who oppress women,in the name of religion, that is NOT Islam.
The oppression of woman has been ongoing since the times of Adam & Eve, it is evident in all cultures, I see evidence of it so often in non-muslims, in the so called Western Civilised world.

Islamanc
mail e-mail: nasia.sarwar@pjwales.co.uk


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