urge them not to become occupiers, urge them to come home.
go to http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/ and send messages to US-troops in Iraq. The site is ment to support them, but you can also ask them to come home. The messages last for a couple of days, I checked. So innundate them. Give them arguments, links, send them URL's of pictures. Let your boys know you love them: bring them home. Convince them.
other links to help (in)form public opinion
http://www.defendamerica.mil/nmam.html http://www.cgispy.com/boards/board.cgi?user=skypilota72 http://www.operationmom.org/cgi-bin/gtchat/chat.pl
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